| "It takes only seven seconds for us to judge another person when we first meet them," says clinical psychologist Linda Blair, the Daily Mail reported. Here is an expert's guide to passing the seven-second test:? |
英國(guó)《每日郵報(bào)》消息，臨床心理學(xué)家琳達(dá)?布萊爾認(rèn)為，我們和別人初次見(jiàn)面時(shí)，他們給我們留下的印象在一開(kāi)始的七秒鐘就已經(jīng)確定了。下面我們提供一些專(zhuān)家建議幫助大家度過(guò)7秒鐘大關(guān)： |
| ※ Take a minute before you meet other people. Check your appearance and breathe out gently to remove tension. Turn your phone off or to silent. Smile! It's the perfect way to establish rapport. Hold your bag in your left hand so that your right is free for handshakes. |
※ 在和別人見(jiàn)面之前花上一分鐘，整理下自己的儀表，平緩地呼氣以消除緊張感。別忘了把手機(jī)關(guān)閉或調(diào)成靜音狀態(tài)。微笑！這是建立和諧關(guān)系的最佳途徑。記得左手拿包，騰出右手來(lái)隨時(shí)準(zhǔn)備和別人握手。 |
| ※ Use open gestures rather than folding your arms or crossing your legs. Give an occasional compliment - "I like your dress" or whatever - but don't be insincere or exaggerate it. Dress for the occasion - polished shoes, and easy on the perfume or cologne. |
※ 采用開(kāi)放的姿態(tài)，不要雙臂交叉抱于胸前，也不要雙腿交叉。適時(shí)地贊美別人，比如說(shuō)“我喜歡你這樣的打扮”等等，說(shuō)的時(shí)候要真誠(chéng)，不要過(guò)于夸張。記得讓你的著裝適合當(dāng)天的場(chǎng)合，把鞋子擦亮，不要噴過(guò)多的香水。
（China.org.cn） |
